Clear your mind from it's thoughts and concepts . Dwell on these questions to find out your own authentic answers in a clear and simple way :
1. How "Love" can be naturally directed towards individual self, towards the lover ( or beloved), towards oneness with God and towards the society as a whole ?
2. How can "Love" be developed , felt and experienced as a connection with all beings , all things and all times ? In other words , love as medium of unity-consciousness ( i.e. Oneness/Unity) ?
3. How can the connection with the Self be used to enhance "love making" and "Love-ecstasy" with the lover/beloved to reach oneness between both of them, with God and with all beings and all things.
4. Has "Love" by itself got the embedded weakness in getting the lover/beloved lost in itself and become unaware of the balance required in other aspects of life ? If so, what can be done to bring total balance in all aspects of life including the aspect of "Love".
5. How can the combination of love and awareness be developed and maintained to enhance the living of life ?
6. What should a person do in case of one-sided love ? Example "A" loves "B" Immensely , however , "B" is not in that intensity of love with "A" , then what should both do ?
7. What are the signs of "over-possession" of love . And how can it be corrected ?
8. Is "unconditional" love really possible in the modern world ? Can it be an attachment ? If so, how can it be avoided ?
9. Is it really possible to give mutual freedom and respect to each other in loving relationship ?
10. Where is the room for individual "Self-Knowing" in a deep loving relationship ? And how can it be honored and encouraged individually , moreso, when both the partners of life had a deep loving relationship for quite some time with one of the two always on the leading edge of relationship?
11. It is said that loveable person is someone who is natural, easy with himself/herself, radiating the simple , unaffected humanity that makes anyone truly attractive. Is that the definiton of "attraction" and "love" in the modern world ? If not, what are we missing , if any ?
12. Sat-chit-Anand is a state in which your primary relationship is not with your beloved but with your Self. In such cases,how will romance/love begin and enhance with another person?
13. As sex allows you to blend the needs of the self with the freedom of the self, how can then sexual love be transmuted to divine love as an experience of "oneness?"
14. How can an expression of love by the lover/beloved be fully developed to enhnace and enjoy more and more of love?
15. Should all love be based on the search for spirit so that the two people can see spirit in each other? If so, how can it be developed, felt, experienced, and known.
16. How can falling in love, merging into passionate love, be gradually developed into a joint passion for the Self, the source of all love?
17. Isn't seeing yourself as whole, a part of the bigger whole abd bieng with the bigger whole the first step toward seeing yourself as truly attractive and lovable? Isn't that a great sign to open up to give and receive love and experience the true power of love together with the lover/beloved?
18. It is said that when you attune yourself to spirit, it starts to talk to you in love. When you truly aspire to talk to another person from the spirit's love, what is the best way to find and connect with such a person that there is two-way experience of love?
19. How can the worn-out lovers revive their love and feel profound and feel at one with each other? As the source of passion is within yourself. when the passion wanes it must be rekindled at its source. How to go about rekindling the passion at the source?
20. As the spirit responds to your vision, the higher your vision,the more you evolve. Choosing your own dharma determines completely how happy, successful and loving you will be in your lifetime. Then why not know what is the highest potention that a human can be and let that be your dharma? How to go about it?
21. Spirit is your chief and only ally in your quest for unity. The tactics of non-love will never get you to love. So what should you do to get an immersion into the love of the spirit and an experience of the same love manifested in the man/woman of your love?
22. Love is based not on how you act or feel but on your level of awareness. In duality love comes and goes, in unity there is only love. So how to be 'unity'?
23. When consciousness is recognized in each and every soul and throughout creation, love will be recognized the same way. It is with this recognition, we can develop a vivid understanding of common humanity and brotherhood/sister-hood. How can we expand our visions in this direction to see that universal love is in the works?
24. Can balanced use of rationality and intuition lead to a good combination of "Love" and "Awareness" in the working life? If so, how? If not, why not?
25. According to Ken Wilber, boundary lines, of any type, are never found in the real world, but only in the imagination of the mapmakers. Does that hold good in case of presence and feeling of love and in the case of its absence and disregard of love? The opposites. The point is to unify and harmonize the opposites, by discovering a ground that transcends and encompasses them both. And that ground is "unity-consciousness" in itself. How do we practically understand this point and move towards non-boundary awareness of unity-consciousness?
26. Of the seven chakras, heart chakra (#4) is the center of love. Its central theme, by way of its strengths, is love, empathy and humanity. Air is its relevant element. Weakness like narcissim, bitterness and arrogance are related to the under-development of the center. How can we develop this centre generally by way of exercises and meditation; however moreso by the application of non-boundary awareness of unity-consciousness?
27. How can I be one with God? By being the spirit I am? By first knowing that Sat-chit-Anand is my innate nature. Then remembering it always that this is what I truly am. Then letting this true nature prevail in all four quadrants as identified by KW. From this equation, each of the three aspects (i.e. Sat, Chit, Ananad) seems to contribute approx 33% towards unity-consiousness. And love is a part of "Anand." Other major elements contribuiting to Anand are peace and joy. Does it mean that "Love" howsoever fully developed can make the maximum contribution of approx 11% (i.e. one third of 33%) towards unity-consciousness? Or has this mathematical deduction nothing to do with the reality of non-boundary unity-consciousness. If so, how?
28. According to the law of Giving and Receiving, it is said that if you are looking for "Love," you must give it to someone and moreso to the one from whom you wish to receive. Does this law hold good in actual living of life? If so, how can we make it truly effective in the pure circulation of love energy?
29. How does the law of detachment help in experiencing the magic, the celebration, the exhilaration and the exultation of love (i.e. your own spirit)?
With Best Wishes............Ram Varma
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